How do I know he is right for me? Check out whether you and your guy are right for each other by seeing how many of these points apply to you. Is he the one for you? More than 12: It's a match made in heaven! Between 6 and 12: You both need to work at this relationship! Less than 6: Ditch him! * He treats you with respect. This means he doesn’t ignore you in front of his friends, he doesn’t pressure you to do anything you don’t want to do and he certainly doesn’t think it’s OK to kiss and tell. * You can be yourself with him. He totally loves the child in you. In fact, he thinks your not-so-secret love of Scrabble and fluffy animal slippers is actually quite cool. * His hug makes you feel as if you’ve just come home, his kiss feels like heaven. * He remembers your birthday and all your major relationship milestones and anniversaries. * He knows how important it is for you to still have time for your friends and doesn’t mind if you’d rather go out with the girls this Saturday night. * When he says he’s going to call you, he calls. * You unexpectedly turn up to a party he’s at to find him laughing in a corner with his friends - NOT eyeing up the cool girls from the year above. * He doesn’t get jealous when you drool during your favourite actor’s films. * It’s NEVER acceptable for a guy to get violent or verbally abuse you at any time. If he does, walk away now. You’re worth more than that. * He gets on well with your best friend without you having to be suspicious that he actually fancies her. * You can tell him anything and know that your secrets are safe with him. * You still fancy him even when he’s wearing that nerdy sweater his Grandmother knitted for him last Christmas - in fact, you fancy him more than ever in it. What’s not to like about a guy that loves his Grandmother? * When he suggests you go to the cinema this weekend, he doesn’t mean to go and see the latest fight fest. He also lets you chose the popcorn flavour... * If you decide to move to a different college after exams, he doesn’t pressure you to stay in the same college - he knows how important your dreams and ambitions are and he loves you enough to want you to do well in your chosen field. * A picture of you and him together is saved onto his phone.